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Thank your for your reply. The problem is usually I would have thought that the thoughts were discusting, but I never thought anything of them this time. Now I'm worried that this means I'm gay. I love woman, I love my girlfriend who I am so attracted to but this is making me so worried

I also have a girlfriend and have no intention being with another man

Hi I havnt posted on here in ages. I have ocd that revolves around sexual things like my cheating on my girlfriend pocd and hocd. Not all at the same time but they change around. I usually get intrusive thoughts and images I cant get out of my head.i use to worry about being gay, but i have been attracted to girls and had sex with girls my whole life. Yesterday my friend gave me a brownie and i thought nothing of it and then after i ate it he told me it had pot in it. I have never done that before and was really annoyed. I went to bed to sleep it off and i started to masterbate like any human being. I then got an image of a male in my head and got freaked out about it. I carried on though. And eventually got it out my head. But I am now freaked out that this has made me gay with having this image in my head. If a straight man did masterbate to a gay image does this make him gay. I couldn't get it out my head for ages.

Ok thank you. I've just got to think it's a thought and I've got loads of memorys which could be faulse that I can create in my head. It's just hard to leave them be because I dont want to be in a relashionship with someone I dont deserve

But it's so hard, I cant find anything on the internet to compare it to to see of it would have been cheating

Thank you. But is what I am worrying about something that you would need to confess to, meaning is this like cheating or is it not a big deal what I'm worried about

Thank you for your reply. Sometimes it's easy to realise what these thoughts are but this one is hard. I keep thinking about telling my girlfriend. But is it a thing that if you did do it that you would have been unfaithful for looking at another girls underwear. If I did should I confess is this cheating or is it a minor thing that happens cause humans are curious.

Hi I havnt posted on herr in a few years as I have been doing really well. But recently I havnt been good. I have always suffered from having intrusive thoughts and faulse memory of me cheating on my girlfriend. I had an intrusive thought ages ago about me going and taking another girls underwear and it caused loads of distress.and around that time my girlfriend had some of her friends clothes and underwear ¹and at the time I got a thought saying, I could go look at those. And I dont no if I acted on it or looked at them to prove to my self that it's not a big deal. But now I'm thinking I went and did it for pleasure. If I did do it should I feel bad is it as bad as cheating. Im having a really hard time and would appreciate any help. Thank you

Thank you PB. I have accepted the thoughts the whole week I've been saying it might of happend or might not have. And sometimes saying it did but who cares. This has helped but I've got my self back in the old cycle I think

Thanks your right. I need to let this silly stuff go

Hi everyone. Today I'm feeling really down about this whole topic. I've talked to my girlfriend about it and she's says it's silly and I need to stop worrying about it. I just can't get it out my mind

Thanks for the advice. Means a lot.

Thanks for your response. I know it's stupid but OCD gives everything so much meaning and power it can be impossible at times to leave it.

Well no one did anything wrong it was just a awkward moment. What do you think ?

That nothing happend and you probably felt uncomfortable.