kika22 Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 So I've been freaking out all day today. In the last several months my ocd around kids has been through the roof. I'll try to look at kids to see if I feel a certain way or not and when I get a "turned on" feeling, I just want to die. I had that today where I work, I was ringing up a guest and her child was sitting in the cart and when I went over it in my mind I got that turned on feeling and it did not feel like ocd, at all. Which has me freaked out. But what's worse, is because of this feeling when I was grabbing the bag off the hook I moved my hand in a way where I was trying to touch the child. So I've been terrified all day because I knew what I was doing and again, it did not feel like ocd. I wish I knew why I get this way around kids. I feel like a sick pervert. Link to comment
PolarBear Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 It's just average, everyday OCD. Nothing new here. You're going to have to come to terms with the fact that you have a mental disorder that can make you think all sorts of crazy things and feel weird sensations. Then you make matters so much worse by doing compulsions. Link to comment
kika22 Posted April 16, 2017 Author Share Posted April 16, 2017 It just bothers me because I'm pretty sure that I even consciously thought that I wanted to do it. Link to comment
paradoxer Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 (edited) Sounds like typical OCD doing its thing. 4 hours ago, kika22 said: it did not feel like ocd, at all. Edited April 16, 2017 by paradoxer got rid of an erroneous apostrophe. I wish the formatting would give one a bit more of a chance. Link to comment
kika22 Posted April 16, 2017 Author Share Posted April 16, 2017 I wish I could write this off as ocd, but I felt like I wanted to do it. Link to comment
fi1 Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 It is so normal for someone with OCD to think thoughts like this. I have learnt from my experiences that I need to remember who I am. So remember who you are and you will realise you are not a pervert... It is your mind!! Not you!! It is so much more easy to say than to do, I know. But remember who you are! Do not let this OCD take over. Stay positive. You will get there Link to comment
PolarBear Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 The fact is, you did nothing, kika. Nothing. Everything else is OCD. Link to comment
kika22 Posted April 17, 2017 Author Share Posted April 17, 2017 I wanna thank everyone for their comments. I'm still struggling with this. I just keep going over it in my head and each time I remember feeling turned on and deliberately moving my hand towards the child. I think I need to finally just bring up this pedophile theme to my therapist. I've been too scared to. It's so embarrassing. Link to comment
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