Chels Posted March 5, 2015 Share Posted March 5, 2015 Ok so my latest obsession is thinking that i could be gay or bi...im in a relationship with a boy who iv been with for 3 years. 6 years ago my friend and i had this stupid thing where we kissed and did things when we were drunk and since then i havent even thought about it i wasnt upset afterwards i didnt really think about it to be honest...i kissed one of my girl friends on holiday whilst drunk but apart from that nothing else...lately iv been thinking if i would enjoy doing things with a girl, the thought freaks me out but would i like it? I think if i watched porn where 2 girls were getting into doing something it would turn me on and i would like it..im freaked out i dont want a girlfriend and couldnt imagine myself being with a girl but what if i would ENJOY IT!? Am i a weirdo? My boyfriend would think i was a lesbian if i told him this... Link to comment
Guest ADD Posted March 5, 2015 Share Posted March 5, 2015 No, your boyfriend would probably be excited if you told. This is nothing more than another spin on your relationship OCD fears. Treat it the same way! Link to comment
Guest anatta Posted March 5, 2015 Share Posted March 5, 2015 (edited) If you have a boyfriend and don't want a girlfriend, what difference would it make whether you would enjoy it? Acceptance of the possibility is key to breaking the cycle, and in your case, the possibility is something that many psychologically healthy people accept with no emotional distress whatsoever, so you have proof that it is possible not to care. No, your boyfriend would probably be excited if you told. LOL, so true! Edited March 5, 2015 by anatta Link to comment
Guest Petit4 Posted March 5, 2015 Share Posted March 5, 2015 I agree, it doesn't matter if you would enjoy it. Lots of people would enjoy sex in any form, but if they don't want a relationship with someone of the same sex, they're not gay. (Just for the record, I think being gay, bi, or any other orientation is fine, anyway.) And if you're still worried about this, that's a good indication it's OCD! Link to comment
Chels Posted March 5, 2015 Author Share Posted March 5, 2015 Thanks guys, i guess thats cleared that then lol. Appreciate it. Link to comment
Guest pjay Posted March 5, 2015 Share Posted March 5, 2015 Ok so my latest obsession is thinking that i could be gay or bi...im in a relationship with a boy who iv been with for 3 years. 6 years ago my friend and i had this stupid thing where we kissed and did things when we were drunk and since then i havent even thought about it i wasnt upset afterwards i didnt really think about it to be honest...i kissed one of my girl friends on holiday whilst drunk but apart from that nothing else...lately iv been thinking if i would enjoy doing things with a girl, the thought freaks me out but would i like it? I think if i watched porn where 2 girls were getting into doing something it would turn me on and i would like it..im freaked out i dont want a girlfriend and couldnt imagine myself being with a girl but what if i would ENJOY IT!? Am i a weirdo? My boyfriend would think i was a lesbian if i told him this... if you fear the thought of been attracted to woman then its impossable your gay or bi Link to comment
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