Hello, I'm new to the site. I joined because it's 1:30am and I'm sleeping on the sofa because my boyfriend and I have had a row over his OCD behaviours. He's currently having CBT but I feel like his obsessions have become more random lately; the slightest thing I do seems to set them off. I've tried letting him follow his compulsions and tried telling him to stop, but when I do the latter, he gets angry and quite nasty with me - "don't tell me what to do", that sort of thing. He told me at the start of his therapy that he wasn't prepared to discuss his CBT with me, and that he didn't want me to ask about it. However, on a few occasions, he has told me what his treatment entails and what exercises he needs to do. I feel like he's being very manipulative with me in withholding information when he feels like it, and I honestly don't know if this is part of his OCD or another aspect of his personality. I'm due to start stage 3 CBT myself soon to treat ongoing anxiety and he is sometimes less than sympathetic. I find myself in tears a lot of the time because I don't know how to support him and he won't talk to me about it. Does anyone have any advice? I really do feel very desperate and alone right now.