Hi,
So sorry to hear what you're all going through with your children, unfortunately we're in a very similar situation with our 14 year old daughter, her OCD developed last summer, but has become really severe in the past few weeks. One thing I would like to ask is how you juggle work and general life alongside the intensity of trying to help your child. My husband has been off work with stress for 2 weeks and has a very demanding job, he's struggling to see how he's going to cope when he goes back to work. I suffer with OCD myself, so my husband has become a carer to both me and my daughter.
Thanks in advance for any advice.