Hey all hope you’re doing well!
I seem to have backed myself into a corner, I’m struggling and wondered if anyone has any advice for me.
For context tb and asbestos are extremely scary to me. 9 years ago I was told I would need a TB test as I’d been around my uncle yet I never got one. I have no idea why I didn’t get one as I was a kid at the time but like I said 9 years later and I’m still worrying about TB.
For more context, a couple of years ago I moved into an old house. When we moved in we tried to get our electric metre moved to a different place but they refused because they didn’t want to disturb asbestos. There were always parts of this house that I was wary about. I’d have to hold my breath to open some cupboards in case there was anything nasty in the air that I could breathe in (As there are random holes in the back of the cupboards) but it didn’t get in the way of my life too much. A few months ago whilst cleaning, I scraped the wall at the back of the cooker where the wall is sort of “exposed” I guess. Immediately thoughts flooded my head that I’d disturbed asbestos so I held my breath and ran out of the kitchen and haven’t breathed in there since. I do go into the kitchen but I have to hold my breath.
And then a few weeks ago i opened up a piece of flat pack furniture to build in my bathroom and as I was screwing it, pieces of dust and wood started falling off and I just remember before that my grandad said to me “do you even know what asbestos is, it’s sort of like wood” immediately I had to leave and now I’m in the same predicament in the bathroom as I am in the kitchen. Can go in there but have to hold my breath. This is extremely hard for me as you can imagine.
My mum is going into these rooms, it doesn’t put my mind at ease (as tb can sit dormant in your body for 10 years) It makes me more scared of touching things she has. (That 10 year thing is what is scaring me the most because I know from experience my anxiety won’t subside for 10 years about the situation if I breathe in the rooms) Sometimes I think to myself is this ocd or am I sure I’m not just plain psychotic and need locking up.
I can reason with myself a bit about the bathroom situation and the flat pack furniture but the force telling me to hold my breath is so strong that I have to. I can’t reason with myself regarding the kitchen, it has been the bane of my life for months and the only reassurance that would suffice is an air quality test.
Just reading this back I am embarrassed at how pathetic my life sounds. I don’t want to admit my crazy but my therapist said to post on forums so that’s what I’m doing. I’m not even sure what I’m looking for by posting all of this, I am just tired and have no idea what to do
Hope everyone has a good day and I’m sorry that you took time out of your day to actually read this