Tikiti35

I’m so sorry but I can’t offer you any advice but just wanted you to know you’re not alone. I don’t know how you can come to terms with everything that’s happened over the past few year all the while dealing with your husbands OCD - you’re amazing, keep going!

My husband has OCD and Anxiety which presents at intrusive thoughts linked with real life events. About a month ago he had a night out and ended up looking after a friend who drank way too much and needed an ambulance. My husband was pretty much sober but because of what happened his OCD is telling him he was the one who was drunk and that he cheated on me with someone underage. These intrusive thoughts are killing him, it’s been over a month now and nothing seams to be working. Medication hasn’t helped, therapy hasn’t helped and he’s slowly giving up on life. I’m terrified everyday that I’m going to get a phone call or visit from the police telling me he’s ended his life. I don’t know what to do anymore or how to help. I’m 9 months pregnant and I’m trying to stay calm for the baby but I’m really struggling to cope, which is nothing compared to what my husband is going through. Even in his worst days he’s the best part of my life and it’s heartbreaking that he’s going through this and I can’t do anything to help. He’s a wonderful kind person but he can’t see that anymore. if anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it because I’m terrified my whole world is going to fall apart Thank you