Guest fand4eva Posted August 2, 2014 Share Posted August 2, 2014 So...started my cbt mid July, but we haven't got anywhere yet,still in assesment stage, i have been told if i mention the names of the my step brothers ( who abused me when i was 14-16)she's going to have to inform someone, this has made me reluctant to be open with her,we've only done 2 sessions so far and the 2nd had to be rearranged cos she had a meeting, she's now on holiday till 13th August (day before my birthday)getting thoughts again even though they had eased,I just have a bad feeling about this. Link to comment
ocdismylife Posted August 2, 2014 Share Posted August 2, 2014 Well you have this forum to vent <3 Link to comment
PolarBear Posted August 2, 2014 Share Posted August 2, 2014 You have a complicated situation. This is going to take some time. Give it a chance. Link to comment
Guest Sisyphus Posted August 2, 2014 Share Posted August 2, 2014 (edited) fand4eva, on 02 Aug 2014 - 1:52 PM, said:So...started my cbt mid July, but we haven't got anywhere yet,still in assesment stage, i have been told if i mention the names of the my step brothers ( who abused me when i was 14-16)she's going to have to inform someone, this has made me reluctant to be open with her,we've only done 2 sessions so far and the 2nd had to be rearranged cos she had a meeting, she's now on holiday till 13th August (day before my birthday)getting thoughts again even though they had eased,I just have a bad feeling about this. Did she give you an alternative possibility - like using proxy names? So picking 2 different names and swapping them for their real names. Just so you could still talk about the events if they're relevant to the OCD? Edited August 2, 2014 by Sisyphus Link to comment
Guest jayjay89 Posted August 2, 2014 Share Posted August 2, 2014 It's really weird (to me) that she would need to report that - are you over 18? Link to comment
Guest OCDAY Posted August 2, 2014 Share Posted August 2, 2014 Hi Fand4eva, Finding a therapist/phsycologist/phiciatrisct you trust is so important. I'm no professional but that is a hard issue for her raise with you. I'm guessing whoever is treating you is NHS. Don't know if it's a viable option for you but I had to go private. I can say anything to my physchologist, he made it clear from day one he would only have to take action unless he thinks I am an immediate threat to myself or others........which would never happen. I can phone him anytime if it's vital. I hope you are coping as best you can. Link to comment
Guest fand4eva Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 Yep it's what she said if I name them,I am coping just but it does seem like I'm doing it on my own xx Link to comment
Guest newsi Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 Hi fand4eva Your not on your own. We're here with you Simon Link to comment
Guest fand4eva Posted August 4, 2014 Share Posted August 4, 2014 Thank you Simon my name is Nicky xx Link to comment
Guest newsi Posted August 4, 2014 Share Posted August 4, 2014 Hi nicky. Where did fand4eva come from Link to comment
Guest fand4eva Posted August 4, 2014 Share Posted August 4, 2014 Freya, my youngest daughter,Amanda my eldest my name and my husbands name Dean, and 4 Eva as in we're forever xx Link to comment
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