Annoyed by the little things

[constantworrier1989]

Once my boyfriend and I moved in together I suddenly started doubting whether I love him or not even though literally a week before I was a million percent sure that I did. I’ve been trying to deal with that for about a year now, obviously it’s not going amazingly. 

The main thing I’m having a problem with is, when I get annoyed with him about little things like him being a chatterbox, etc, I feel so guilty and like it means something. I know logically that it doesn’t (right?!), but I just can’t stop worrying about it. This usually happens right around/ during my period which probably doesn’t help either. 

Basically, I don’t know how to stop feeling guilty about being annoyed and worrying that me being annoyed with him means something. I try not to think about it but I get sad and he can usually tell, and I end up confessing to him. I know I need to stop doing that - but what else can I do?