O Neg Posted November 5, 2019 Share Posted November 5, 2019 This is a very difficult thing to write about. I have intrusive sexual Thoughts regarding my youngest granddaughter.Its all very well saying to me that thoughts do not equal reality and just let the thoughts come and go but its difficult when it's my own flesh and blood. I love all of my grandchildren but I feel my chances of a normal relationship is being threatened by the falsehood of POCD. I feel I may have lost the ability to interact already. I so so hope not. I really don't know what to do for the best. One final detail I missed out my thoughts happen even when she is not at my house. Link to comment
PolarBear Posted November 5, 2019 Share Posted November 5, 2019 I know the thoughts are scary but doing compulsions just makes them worse. Avoiding her is a compulsion. It would be best to interact with her as much as you can. Link to comment
paradoxer Posted November 6, 2019 Share Posted November 6, 2019 8 hours ago, O Neg said: I really don't know what to do for the best. Do nothing, there's nothing that needs to be done anyway. Enjoy your time with your granddaughter. Don't be a fool and let OCD spoil things. It's meaningless. Link to comment
Bodge Posted November 6, 2019 Share Posted November 6, 2019 Don't listen to the ocd, and don't let it rob you of precious time with your Granddaughter. They are thoughts, nothing more. X Link to comment
O Neg Posted November 7, 2019 Author Share Posted November 7, 2019 Thank you all so much for your kind words of support. It means a lot to me at this time. Link to comment
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