Thank you for your replies James M and Howard.
I'm sorry that it's difficult for you to leave the house James M, I hope things get better for you soon.
I believe my work does have mental health first aiders, and a confidential therapy phone line but I'm worried that it wouldn't be confidential and it's just another way of my employer keeping an eye on people.
Yes definitely, my stress levels are triggering checking rituals at work and it's hard to send an email without checking that it's word perfect first.
I can spend an hour on an email checking and rechecking but I'm trying to limit myself to ten minutes for a simple email and half an hour for something more complex. Even with this target though I find myself checking the clock and sending the email exactly at ten minutes.
I'm also working on a project at the moment and my target is to do 12 checks an hour or one every 5 minutes. I can feel the anxiety rise in me every time I miss the 5 minute target. Even if I am faster than the 5 minutes I feel anxious.
I can imagine, its not easy to find a supportive employer. You have my sympathy, my husband suffers from IBS and can't go anywhere without knowing he'll be close to toilets.
I do need to do something before I hit a crisis, I had a breakdown in 2014 after my dad died suddenly and I was all of a sudden left to look after my autistic mum who needed to learn how to cook, clean, and use money. She didn't even have her own bank account, dad looked after all of that for her.
Recent stressful situations haven't been quite that stressful thankfully but still it's not really a road that I want to even start to travel again.
I will definitely contact my GP surgery on Monday, and talk to them. Thank you for suggesting that I talk to them about what to tell my employer, I hadn't thought to do that.
Sorry for the long reply, I'm practicing with not editing this, I'm just typing it out as it comes to me.