Hi all,
This is my first time posting here and I am quite nervous.
I have only recently found out through therapy that I suffer from OCD I have probably had many subtypes over time but never released.
Getting to the point, I'm 22 male and have this over whelming fear that I could be gay, when I was young around 5 years old my mum and dad split up as my dad realised later on in life that he is gay, he is married to a man now so I'm not homophobic.
I have grown up alot of my life without my dad around. I am now in a serious relationship with a girl this is my first serious relationship I have been with her for 5 years now. I now constantly worry that I am gay and I am in denial.
I'm not sure if this is OCD or not, I get triggered by seeing gay couples on TV or just seeing some guy that is a decent looking bloke, that when my mind goes to things my dad has told me about how he released he was gay. I do certain compulsions like looking for sexual arousal around men, I also a few years back tried grinder and met up with a few guys to experiment, I should point out that I didn't particularly want to do it but my mind convenienced me it's who I was, I was also sexually assaulted as a child by a guy. it made me feel anxious and horrible.
I'm worried I'm going to ruin my relationship because of this, or I'm worried I'm being in denial, I don't get sexually aroused around situations I normally would and that makes me believe the thoughts I get. I'm really struggling.