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No more reassurance,just support
gingerbreadgirl replied to Nolightleft's topic in Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Have you ever played in a band @Nolightleft? I used to play drums in a band wayyy back in the day. I always thought the guitar seemed way too hard for me! I don't know how people can play without looking and while bouncing around stage haha -
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gingerbreadgirl replied to Nolightleft's topic in Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
What kind of music did you used to play? -
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gingerbreadgirl replied to Nolightleft's topic in Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
This is ruminating How are things going otherwise? Am I remembering rightly that you play the guitar? -
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gingerbreadgirl replied to Nolightleft's topic in Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
You've said similar for every other theme you've had xx -
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gingerbreadgirl replied to Nolightleft's topic in Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
But you have ALWAYS believed this when in the middle of the obsession - as do we all. You can't in any way trust what you believe right now. -
No more reassurance,just support
gingerbreadgirl replied to Nolightleft's topic in Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
You can do this nll. It's the absolute hardest thing in the world but it's the only way out of this nightmare - as you know. We're all behind you and cheering you on xx -
Yes I agree, the very existence of the thread is a way to carry out compulsions. "Confessing" to us and then getting reassurance from the fact that we don't respond by saying "omg this isn't OCD what a monster". I know this because I've done very very similar many times. We are absolute masters of seeking out reassurance
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Sorry I think I misread your post - you were asking about how to manage side effects not what they are. D'oh sorry! I take mine in the morning but tbh I've never been sure if this is the right thing to do. When starting it or upping the dose I sometimes take a sleep aid (such as OTT nytol). I also took an indigestion remedy to help with stomach upset etc. I think also just general self care is super important. Being kind to yourself and reminding yourself the side effects are temporary. The usual stuff like eating well, hydration, rest, getting outside and so on. Try if you can to not book in any big or stressful commitments during the first few weeks
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Everyone is very different when it comes to meds so everyone's experience is only one experience. Some people have dreadful side effects and no benefit. Others have no side effects and lots of benefits. Most people are in the middle I imagine. For me personally, fluoxetine has been exceptionally positive, a life saver in fact. I have been on it for quite a while now. There were side effects in the beginning and to a small degree even now - trouble with staying asleep, some weight gain (although this also ageing/enjoying life a bit too much ), also trouble with focusing and drive. This last one is the biggest issue. However the benefits (for me) have FAR outweighed the side effects, and I've noticed the benefits most on a slightly higher dose (40mg). I have had long periods both on and off the drug and I can confidently say OCD is 100 times better when I'm on fluoxetine. There is of course the question of whether this is placebo, and it might be I don't know. Honestly I don't care that much. I know I have been very lucky in this regard and I am just one case. But thought I would say as sometimes it's good to hear a positive story I think.
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I feel like this will come across as really annoying and I can only apologise but... I know there'll be people reading this who want to give reassurance and comfort (totally understandably). And I get it I really do and sometimes I think reassurance can help with some people (plus it's not for me to say either way - I still struggle so I'm not exactly an expert!). But...nll goes way back with this and any hits of reassurance can drag him so fast into that pit of despair which you can see from past posts going back years. I really really don't want this to happen to you this time NLL. I rarely comment on the main forum these days but I try to when I see your name pop up because you seem such a nice guy and it's hard to watch you fall so hard each time. And also I relate a LOT. Please anyone reading this don't offer any reassurance as harsh/like the reassurance police that sounds - I'm really not meaning to come across like that I just know how nll's mind works cos mine has been the same many times
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Go and do something right now that's distracting. My therapist said when the urge to ruminate was so powerful - go outside. Name what you can see, hear, smell, taste. Then go back and do it again. Look for new things you didn't spot the first time. Leave this alone and pull yourself kicking and screaming into a totally different activity You can do this nll I totally believe in you - you've worked so hard. Don't let OCD wreck your life again
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Humiliating Admission
gingerbreadgirl replied to Hurting's topic in Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
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Humiliating Admission
gingerbreadgirl replied to Hurting's topic in Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Hi @Hurting just read this thread and wanted to say I'm so sorry things are so hard. There's not a lot of advice I can add to what's been said here but just want to say you're not alone. Things won't always feel this bad. I'm glad you're in touch with the crisis team x