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lucy :)

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About lucy :)

  • Birthday 18/07/1992

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  • OCD Status
    Sufferer
  • Type of OCD
    OCD

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  • Gender
    Female
  • Location
    Up North :D
  • Interests
    I do karate and play the violin. Conflicting hobbies, I know.

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  1. i agree with what you're all saying, if i could push a button and get rid of it right now, i wouldn't hesitate a second. But sadly, that's not going to happen. So i'm trying to see the positives - saying that there are very few. I'm really not doing a very good job at explaining this am i? Oh well. i was VERY tired when i wrote that post last night, my brain was probably not functioning properly (is it ever?). Without ocd though, i wouldn't have met all you wonderful people on here. And i wouldn't have taken part in various charity events to raise money for ocduk, whihc were all amazing experiences especially when i'm raising money for something that really helps everyone here. So maybe that's one positive thing, for me. xxxx
  2. I don't really know how to go about this, without sounding really weird. But on some level, i feel like i was meant to have ocd. I have this image that if i didn't have ocd a huge chunk of my body would be missing. It's like the saying goes 'can't live with it, can't live without it'. Don't get me wrong, i absolutely hate the thing, and i resent myself in a way for having it. But in some ways i'm thankful for it. Well i told my friends in secondary school for the first time, it really showed me who my real friends were, and those who supported me then are still very close to me now I've had ocd for such a long time, probably most my life in one way or another, that i can't imagine me without it. I'd be a completely different person, but i don't think i'd like the person i would be. (I hope i'm making sense, by the way.) I think i was meant to have it, to fill a hole in myself, because without it i'd feel like only part of a person. I hate the silly rituals and horrible intrusive thoughts and mental images, but in a way it keeps me sane! I'm a more thoughtful person, and more conscientious and it helps me with me work making sure i've got in all the relevant details in essays etc and rigorous checking. So, in a way, i'm kind of thankful. It's a part of who i am, and it helps me to define who my real friends are and who really care. And it makes me appreciate the finer things that other people take for granted. And it makes you appreciate the good days even more I'm probably talking complete rubbish, does anyone else think remotely along the same lines as me? xxxx
  3. today's been a really really tough day. i've been upset and crying on and off all day because my day hadn't gone exactly how i planned. I got so angry and frustrated, hitting my laptop etc, i had to squeeze my hands up really tight to stop myself doing anything crazy. I had terrifying thoughts, and it was because i was scared of myself it's a terrible feeling anyway, this is the slightly better bit - usually when i get like this and i talk to my boyfriend i end up getting really annoyed with him even though he's done nothing wrong, and we'll end up having a massive argument for hours and i'll cry and hate myself for it. But this time, i just told him that i couldn't talk t him because i knew exactly what would happen, so i hung up the phone to him. I did get a bit more upset and scared and i felt completely out of control. But instead of hitting things, i got on my bed, got my two favourite cuddly toys (yeah i know, i'm 18...) and my old pillow and squeezed them really really tight until the feeling passed i must admit during this time i was completely distraught, but it was so much better than taking it out on James. So i felt a small achievement. xxx
  4. Sorry for the 'triple-posting', but i need to update this. Now I'm doing the half marathon too, which is going to be a challenge, but i'm willing to do it for such a worthy cause i'm going to need all the support i can get, i've never ran anywhere near half a marathon before! Please donate? xxxx
  5. Is there any way i can move this to the 'fundraising' bit of the forum? I think it'd fit better in there, but if it's not possible that's okay xxx
  6. I remember someone once (might have been stephen fry actually! i have a terrible memory) said that moods are like the weather. Some days it'll be glorious sunshine, and sometimes it'll be a torrential downpour. But you've just got to put your umbrella up and hope that another sunny day will come soon it's the same with ocd, some days are easier than others, and some days you just want it all to disappear. But, unlike the weather, we have some control over ocd. You've just got to keep powering through. Whatever kind of (mental) weather it is, just keep going, and keep telling yourself that a) it's only in your head, and ultimately you're the one in control of your thoughts and b) a sunny day will be along soon i hope you feel better soon xxxx
  7. Thanks a lot for your help i'll try to not structure my days so much Maybe i didn't explain myself quite right though, i don't have a routine during the day, i've passed that stage now (thankfully!), it's just little things. Say, if someone says something that i think isn't 'right' or someone does something that usually i'd laugh and joke about, sometimes i just can't, and i get really angry and snappy in a split second it comes from nowhere sometimes, i can't even feel the anxiety building. Some days i can tell when it's going to happen though :/ I keep worrying i've got some sort of split personality disorder or something! :| It's really difficult to explain but thank you for taking the time to help me xxxx
  8. HELLO! As some of you remember, last November I did a charity 'Jailbreak' with durham uni, and raised almost £200 for OCD-UK. Well, in a few months my boyfriend is running the Redcar Half Marathon, and he decided he wanted to raise money for OCD-UK too (i basically melted when he told me this, he's so wonderful). Anyway, i'd really really appreciate it if you could follow this link http://www.justgiving.com/james-fitzhenry and donate, even just a few pounds will be WONDERFUL It's a great way to give something back to this amazing charity which has helped us all so much, and to keep the charity going for future generations of sufferers and those affected by OCD So, essentially you're giving money to help yourself man, i'm persuasive ¬¬ Anyway, any donations will be kindly recieved and greatly appreciated, if you think about it, the money's going into helping everyone here anyway Right, that's my bit done, your turn! Lots of love and wishes as usual, Lucy xxx
  9. Hello, I posted on here a while ago when I was really quite ill with ocd, and those of you who were around the forums then or read the threads might remember that my problem was mainly with compulsions. I'm slowly managing to get over that, with the help of my amazingly supportive boyfriend, but it stops and starts. Sometimes i'll make great progress, and the next day it'll just take over me again Anyway, recently i've been experiencing a new problem. It's very scary and unsettling, and it's mainly just in my head. Here it is: I usually plan out my days or at least have an idea of how i want my day to go. And usually if it doesn't go like that i get a bit frustrated. But recently i've been getting very very angry if one little thing doesn't go to plan. It makes me feel like a child spitting it's dummy out when it doesn't get it's own way. I get so angry and i can feel it building inside of me, i literally feel like if i don't do something i'll burst. I've never been a violent person (besides doing karate ) but over the past few weeks when i get feelings like this, i scream and shout and hit things and punch walls or throw things. I once even hit my boyfriend :'( it was horrible and i feel like i can't do anything about it. It's terrifying, i'm terrified of myself or what i might do to myself or others I live in fear of it happening again. Some days i can feel it building inside of me, if a chain of a few things go wrong. Other days it'll be one thing going wrong and i'll flip from perfectly happy to horribly angry. And other days, i'll get angry with myself for being upset about it, and it'll make me even more upset. I really need help any help will be greatly appreciated It's putting strain on my relationship, as moods like this tend to come on more when my boyfriend comes visit me (we're both at separate unis at the minute), and i don't want to think it's because of him. I think it's because i want everything to be perfect when he's here. Oh somebody, just please tell me somebody else has felt the same? Do i need anger management? Thank you so much xxxxx
  10. I've just sat and read this whole thread, and i cried. I really pray for you (and i am the least religious person you will find) to get better, both physically and psychologically. I remember when i was like you are know, mentally crippled by my rituals, completely exhausted from lack of sleep and stress and anxiety. And one new year, I decided my new years resolution was simply to 'not have ocd', and it worked kind of. I just did everyday ignoring every spike or compulsive thought i got and told myself i had to keep my new years resolution. I know it's not really relevant to this, but i really hope that some day you'll find a way of helping yourself get over ocd too, and you'll come out the other side so much happier and less stressed. My heart goes out to you, and I wish you the best of luck, Lucy xxxxx
  11. I'm willing to do any volunteer work you need i'd love to give something back. I'm in the durham/teesside area. xxx
  12. And thank you everybody for being so supportive and for donating xxx
  13. Yeah of course you can Sorry if this reply is a bit late. There are plenty of photos on my facebook that i've been tagged in, but i'm not sure how to get them on here :s if you have facebook then you could add me as a friend and see them that way. That's a brilliant idea of course you can, that'd be really good I kind of summarised the journey on the justgiving page, so if you wanted more details i can write more, if you like xxxx
  14. Ashley, i was wondering if there's any way in which you can make this thread more seen so more people know about it? Is there any way of doing that? Thanks Lucy xxx
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