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When you say you do something you regret. What do you mean?

If it helps people to have that label then all good. Like SB said, they are all treated the same

Honestly the best forum for advice. They tell it like it is based on evidence. Not just random ideas… mostly

Definitely echo plucking up the courage and talking to her! What’s the worst that can happen

This shows how far you have come you should be really pleased. You recognised it early!

That was a really good post by DV. They are right, people without OcD would just have that thought and then move on without giving it any notice. We are looking for a connection between that thought and any possible action. It doesn’t mean we are a bad person. Just someone with OCD who loves our little ones Hope you are okay?!

This is how my OCD first became apparent to me and when I started to get help. I would have thoughts of hurting my partner. It doesn’t make you a bad person at all!

Keep posting on here, there are so many wonderful people who can help

Definitely recommend asking your husband to look around this site. It can be so difficult for family and friends to properly understand the condition.

Evening, You are definitely looking for some reassurance here, like when you were calling around various lawyers. From what you describe you are clearly not someone who looks for underage porn. Viewing scenes such as stepmom and teacher student scenarios are perfectly normal. It is a fantasy for a lot of people. The actors in these are almost certainly of legal age. The industry is quite well policed nowadays. You need to let it go if you can.

When you are in the middle of it it is not always to see common sense though. Hope you are well.

Amongst friends here

Yes can relate to this!

You’ll believe it one day

Spot on