You said you have tried therapy - is that cognitive behavioural therapy?
I can only tell it how it was for me as SSRIs can affect people differently. For me it really helped with anxiety but it blunted my emotions. It also made drinking alcohol a no-no which doesn’t worry me these days. And... it made getting sexually aroused difficult though it got a bit better after a few years.
But in a relationship emotions are important I guess so you have to weigh up the pros and cons.