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I’m on my second round of private CBT in 3 years and have just been told I’m at the top of the list for NHS CBT. After yesterday I also realised that my CBT therapist has taken me as far as we can go together and it’s definitely time to change things up. I get a lot of ideas for ERP but I think I’m still lacking understanding of the cognitive side, or is it that I have been told and I’m still looking for the ‘real’ answer. Thank you so much for your reply Taurean. I have always struggled with lack of certainty. It’s definitely something I still need to work on. X

Hi everyone, Yesterday I attended the conference in Brighton and I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who worked hard to put it together. It was a really interesting and helpful day and although I spent most of the day on the verge of tears, hearing others stories of recovery was very inspiring. Im still struggling to truely believe that what I have is OCD and I think that’s what’s definitely holding me back from full recovery. I’m so much better than I was a year ago but at one point in the conference we were asked to put up our hands if we were a sufferer and it took a lot for me to raise my hand, in fact I cried as I did it because even yesterday I still felt like I was lieing to everyone and that I didn’t deserve to be there. Anyway, thank you Ashley and everyone else involved! Xxx

There is hope. A year ago my OCD was so bad I couldn’t work or take care of my child. I was on a cocktail of anxiety and antidepressant medication. Now im back at work, I take care of my child on my own again, and my medication is reducing with the end goal being coming off of some of it completely. I’m not saying OCD doesn’t still affect me, but I am definitely doing better than when my relapse started last year. Are you having CBT? X

I said that exact thing to my husband yesterday and he also told me that insane people don’t question whether or not they are insane.

Thank you for sharing your story and giving others hope for the same x

Ashley how do we go about getting tickets?

Thank you PolarBear this has been going on for 3 years now. I thought I’d cracked it after my first round of CBT but it’s come back just as strong. I’ll keep going and working hard x

I’ve been working so hard on my exposures. There was a time not long ago that I couldn’t be left alone with my son. I now look after him alone on a regular basis. I can’t stay in the house all day with him yet, I have to take him out. But each time I’m with him I’m trying too extend the time I stay indoors. This week my CBT therapist has asked me to sit outside my sons room while he sleeps. This is a challenge, I usually close his door as soon as he’s asleep. But now I have to keep it open and sit outside it. Ive been on the forum a lot less as I identified coming on here, searching for familiar stories, as a compulsion. I’ve gone back to work despite my fears and I’m exercising and eating healthily to try and combat my depression. We’re getting a kitten, I’ve wanted a cat for a long time and I have been putting it off because my thoughts have already turned to harming the kitten. So yesterday I put down the deposit to buy one. So I’m doing all of this, and yet I’m still anxious or extremely stressed whenever I’m alone with my son. I always feel that I’m one step away from harming him. I keep telling myself it’s OCD, but it tells me it’s not OCD and that I want to harm my son. Does anyone have any advice on where I’m going wrong?

I’m on my second round of CBT and I’ve recently gone back to work and also feel like running away every time I’m there, mind you I feel like running away from home too. I suppose we have to keep going and somehow find a way to not let this completely destroy us x

Thank you for your reply. Sometimes knowing you aren’t alone is enough to give you the courage to do what you feel is impossible x

I have to continuously take sleeping tablets otherwise I wake up panicking all night. I was in a complete state about going back to work but I did it. My panic has now moved on to my husband going back to work but deep down I know I’m going to have to find a way to deal with it too. I find having music on or the tv in the background gives me something to listen to which helps me if I wake up sometimes. X

So the big event is approaching, my husband goes back to work next week after needing to take months off with me due to combined depression and ocd. I’ve been managing better, even taking my son out on my own. But this next step is the last one and I’m terrified.

I often think that I have to go to these lengths to finally end things. But you’re right, it would be winning, thank you for the reminder x

This is what it’s like for me too. You’ve described it very well x

I’ve found that running either gives me more time to ruminate which raises my adrenaline further and makes me a nervous wreck after, or if I’m able to stop thinking and be in the moment, it really helps me escape and calms me. Running outside tends to produce a calmer response than running on my treadmill x